A few weeks ago a neighbor called to ask if I could host his brother and brother's partner in my guesthouse. They were evidently unsure whether anyone would feel comfortable having two gay guys stay over, but I really don't care...don't consider it any of my business, so they're here for two nights.
My daughter (aged 17) asked me this evening whether the guys were gay. When I said "yes" (they weren't hiding it) her friend asked her how she knew and she said "because they dress so well." Then the girls went on to dissect the guys' wardrobe.
That was it. No snickering, no rude comments, no nothing. Just a review of their clothes.
It's a new world out there.